Love is a spontaneous affinity generating from many
inner connections dear to the heart waiting to be synergized.
Love is not imagination based on some mythological
stories or religiously sanctified incidences or traditionally told tales. Well
all that could be true and could be inspirational as well but then they are not
reality they are merely roaming around in the arena of imaginations and dreams.
Let us not differentiate and say just because it is in a religious text that it
must be defined as divine love mingling in universal harmony whereas when our
own teenage daughter or son really loves her or his friend then term it as
young blood after lust or infatuation etc.
Love is love, we can and we must
have some social restrictions or else a stage may come when all of will be
after or on each other like crocodiles in a crocodile park but that does not
mean the love with different degrees of intensities for various qualities of
the other person must not exist except with the socially approved,
matrimonially marked and religiously restricted groups or pairs alone. For
example don't we love some books, some music, some musicians, some writers,
some films, some film stars, some paintings, some artists, some foods; some
chefs etc much more than our spouses or parents, our children etc. Life is made
of multiple relationships and multiple love affairs, I am perennially in love
with so many authors and so many artists, in fact I am reciprocating them for
the lovely times and thoughts that they have provided me, after all love is
decided more by the mental time and space we give to someone or something and
their soul stirring appeal or art or thoughts another major ingredient that
impacts our lives and similarly in certain relationships the physical
attraction, appeal and /or companionship also comes into play.
My love for
J.Krshinamurthy's works or Sri Aurobindu's works or Swami vivekannada's work,
or Guy Murchie's work, or Neale Donald Walsch's works or Madurai Mani
Iyer's music definitely far surpass in
engaging me , entertaining my mind and soul far exceedingly than that of any other relationship. But that
does not mean that I cannot live without them or I must be worried as to what
will happen when I have to leave them. Their impact is done and enough and
therefore I would like and love to identify myself with them
and their works but I would not like to get caged in that identity and restrict
myself and my growth.
Love, all love is and does emanate and gets engraved in
the individual, sometimes evaporates too, so it is never external, it is the
inner impulse operating in tune with the inner self, and such love is always
non restrictive, unqualified and unquantifiable and is therefore at liberty to
freely love further and elsewhere as a process of growth of human metamorphosis.
There is no exclusivity in love but there is only exclusive attention,
involvement, interest etc and a commitment and craving to do something with
that love in reciprocation with varying degrees of intensities or intense
totality or total intensity.
But let us also remember that we cannot love
everyone and everything at sometimes, none of the sages have done that either,
it is not possible because love happens after discrimination and distillation
with delight. Preferences are the prerogatives of normal human life before you
get into loving mode after that probably you tolerate everything because you
love.
For example you love a religious way of life for the
many concepts it offers for enhancing your life but because of that you put up
with all the idiocy that the practioners of that religion do.
On the subject of love, as of late February has
become a love industry I wrote this
http://contentwriteups.blogspot.in/2014/02/valentines-day.html
http://idiomsidiomsalltheway.blogspot.in/2012/03/abide-by.html
Here are the links to many other important areas I
have covered in the above write up about identity cages, what happens when we
get into them, what are the many relationships etc
http://contentwriteups.blogspot.in/2014/01/indifferenceidentity-cages.html
http://contentwriteups.blogspot.in/2014/01/why-we-react-or-anatomy-of-reactions.html
http://contentwriteups.blogspot.in/2013/11/what-are-relationships-all-about.html
http://contentwriteups.blogspot.in/2013/07/relationships.html
http://2011newattitudes-balayogi.blogspot.in/2010/12/relationship-15-jan.html
http://contentwriteups.blogspot.in/2009/04/everything-and-everyone.html
http://contentwriteups.blogspot.in/2009/04/i-could-not-see-difference.html
http://contentwriteups.blogspot.in/2009/04/salt-of-life.html
http://contentwriteups.blogspot.in/2009/04/share-well.html
http://idiomsidiomsalltheway.blogspot.in/2012/03/14ultimate-proofacid-test.html
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