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Showing posts with label youth. Show all posts
Showing posts with label youth. Show all posts

Tuesday, November 15, 2022

Diplomacy , sense of humor, survival and living aspect of life

 In any group no one can ignore diplomacy.


Incidentally, diplomatic silence is a sign of maturity and not resorting to emotional rants bordering on personal hurt/attack ( age does not matter at all as everyone needs to be treated with respect- what advantages elders may have in experience youth may have in enhanced learning, greater exposure to new opportunities, sometimes even better understanding due to looking things from different, various or differing perspectives, emphasizing more on analyses, logic etc.).

It is naïve to expect endorsement of or seek appreciation of  any/every view of anyone by anyone else much less everyone else.

To criticize, to analyze, to evaluate and to interpret anything no one needs to perform in or to practice that field. 

There is no point in engaging in ego fest based  on any complexes in a group.

Everything must be taken in light spirit and with a sense of humor.

Parental concern and love can knock off all boundaries but good parents are those who are  extremely tolerant and have the wisdom to observe silently the eccentricities, excellences and exhibition of talents, troubles and tantrums all with extreme equanimity.

We need to acknowledge and to feel proud that the younger generation do think far far in depth, view and analyze anything from various perspectives, they are more PRACTICAL, ANALYTICAL & LOGICAL and may be less emotional or selectively emotional ( which again is justifiable). So, it is normal and expected of them to brush aside very casually anything they find has a huge load of irrelevant bias, excess emotional affinity, exaggerated opinions, hero worship etc. 

We learn more through observation. If we observe the younger generation in slightly educated upbringing and environment do not like to subscribe to many of the things that the older generation wants or expects them to do that most out of sheer respect decide to escape ( from the nation, the religious rituals, petty prejudiced - jaundiced views of life based on orthodoxy etc.) or resort to indifference if they cannot escape.

As life is too competitive and careers becoming tougher for the younger generation that they need to address primarily the SURVIVAL aspect of life before they can relish the LIVING  aspect of life.

We must become mature enough to acknowledge the views, comments of the younger generation without getting emotional and we need not agree with them.

Monday, July 21, 2014

youth





Youth is not a time of life - it is a state of mind. It is not a matter of red cheeks, red lips and supple knees. It is a temper of the will; a quality of the imagination; a vigor of the emotions; it is a freshness of the deep springs of life. Youth means a tempermental predominance of courage over timidity, of the appetite for adventure over a life of ease. This often exists in a man of fifty, more than in a boy of twenty. Nobody grows old by merely living a number of years; people grow old by deserting their ideals."
Samuel Ullman
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http://contentwriteups.blogspot.in/2009/04/in-name-of-almighty.html
http://contentwriteups.blogspot.in/2014/01/parenting-and-youth.html

Wednesday, January 22, 2014

Arvind kejeriwal and his coterie

Arvind kejeriwal  was just an academically qualified highly corrupt NGO activist facade of Indian brand of, sorry breed of Leftist  Marxist  Naxal mafia who were used by many forces some of which even Arvind may not be aware and the crowd with him may also be  not aware .“There's a difference between playing and playing games. The former is an act of joy, the latter — an act.” ― Vera Nazarian , "A leader will find it difficult to articulate a coherent vision unless it expresses his core values, his basic identity...one must first embark on the formidable journey of self-discovery in order to create a vision with authentic soul."
~ Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi Quotes from Good Business

And I would not blame Arvind or the bunch of youth getting carried away by his brand of sloganeering because a huge chunk of educated youth without proper clarity about any  identity or role model all these coupled with the most corrupt popular media houses will succumb to any cage of identity, as all of us are, it could be as stupid as Bollyhood movies or meaningless religious rituals or socially appealing ideology etc. More the brain washing slogans, populist measures and promises promoted avidly by the mass opinion molders in the form of media the easier it is to catch the prey of youth.

But the problem is once we are in the identity cage we refuse to come out , we fail to realize and value our various types of relationships with myriads of things, ideas, people, events etc or their relation to us . It is a dilemma wherein we unconsciously subject ourselves to limited options or reduce our choices. I felt the pathetic situation of the present day's talented, educated, intelligent , toiling youth but rudderless and not getting spotted by any sane radars as well and thought philosophically about it and wrote this essay for this New Year
http://contentwriteups.blogspot.in/2013/12/new-year-with-new-realization-of-reality.html

“Whatever is a reality today, whatever you touch and believe in and that seems real for you today, is going to be, like the reality of yesterday, an illusion tomorrow.”
― Luigi Pirandello

The problem gets compounded by a herd of  ill informed but tall advise giving breed of very active youth who report and also sit on judgment on any personality and on any subject without either polishing their language or updating their knowledge on the subject at least through googling before unleashing their diatribe on paper and on channels. All of these reporters have one thing in common they have no national pride, they know nothing about anything regarding the nation and all their knowledge if at all they have managed to get time to acquire that by 23 or 25 years has been through their history, social, geography text books and leftists propaganda pamphlets. which I too read from 4th std till my SSLC every year I read about the likes of mogul emperors’ wives and love affairs of mogul emperors followed by colonial oppression and Gandhis experiments with two new nude girls everyday[lucky chap] and his doing surya namaskarams daily and reading the bhagawath geetha etc [ great virtues for a leader why bother about governance , economic development, welfare of people, preservation of native culture, protection of nation's heritage , culture etc] this was coupled with Nehru's biographical account explaining about his greatness in all details and glory . so I always felt what a wonderful country it is we can have unlimited romance and unlimited wives à la some emperors style or uncensored experiments  or unquestioned promotion of an English speaking, good looking hypocrite who can then be trust upon the nation as a great personality à la Nehru style pushing aside Patel. DR.B.R.Ambedkar, Rajaji etc; Never did I learn any of these things that there is something called administration, governance, welfare of the people, India's economy, its immense varieties of cultures, its great heritage, its unique agricultural strength as probably the only country with maximum geographical zones soil wise [ excuse me for being too academical here] and the only country where you can cultivate and harvest 365 days in year [ these two luxuries no other place on earth has and what more you need?] India's vast cultures, India's contribution to humanity in many spheres of life [ fortunately some Britishers who came to colonize India took interest and documented some good things for posterity][ incidentally I am reading a wonderful research work on 'physics in the Vedas'. Here I would like to quote something which I send to TMK, another upstart à la kejeriwal,

[1] Page 141of ‘Becoming Indian’ by Pavan K. Varma
“When people are the subjects of their own culture, their creative expression has self –assuredness and spontaneity, so they create a unique and effective language of communication even when the grammar is imperfect. This is because the idiom is authentic. But when people become objects of a foreign culture, a huge transformation takes place. Suddenly, a creative work is judged not for its intrinsic value, or for the heritage it is sourced from or is a part of, but for the degree to which it is comprehensible and conforms to the outsider’s culture. The process is all the more mutilating if the outsider belongs to the dominant political or military power of the time [or a putrefied political ideology-italics mine], and there is necessary prejudice, condescension and prurience in his gaze. When this happens, spontaneity reduces itself to self –conscious mediocrity; creativity seeks to qualify itself [to some irrelevant yard stick]; authenticity gives way to imitation; self –assurance is replaced by denial. An entire culture attempts to reinterpret itself in terms that will somehow win the dominant outsider’s approval. The ‘objectified’ people then thrive only as exotica; their historic role becomes that of the observed; everything external about them –and nothing of intrinsic value-is collated, classified and investigated. They finally end up as caricatures, divorced from their own cultural milieu and perpetually alien-in spite of their best efforts at emulation-to that of the outsider.” [What is more pathetic is the hitherto insiders getting converted into outsiders causing chaos]
Please note: All things written in this quote in brackets and in italics are mine.

Saturday, January 4, 2014

parenting and youth

We must communicate the following facts as indicated in the links, some of which are, of course contradictions.

Nonetheless facts conveyed in a very rational way meant for  both parents and children in whatever way they are willing to listen to and respond .

Only then, we can avoid all sorts of stress related problems, depressions, suicidal tendencies, inferiority complexes, illogical expectations, idiotic and socially pressurized parenting etc.

1] http://contentwriteups.blogspot.in/2013/01/parenting-and-individual-souls-liberty.html

Saturday, April 4, 2009

IN THE NAME OF GOD YOUTH YOU






                                                   IN THE NAME OF ANY GOD

                                                                 YOUTH YOU

Allow all to live and do not attempt to annihilate;

Believe in benevolence and do not bounce back with battle and hate;

Care for civilization and do not co-opt for criminalisation;

Dedicate yourself to development and do not delve into destruction;

Endeavour to endear everyone and do not let enmities to extinguish earthly Elysium;

Fuse fraternity with any or all faith and do not fire and finish with fanaticism;

Great are the gifts of growth and do not gyve them to ground;

Hold holy scriptures to harness harmony and do not harp on them to heap hatred;

Inform the importance of interdependence and do not intimidate with intra-national interests;

Join in with jubilation to do what is jake and do not jeopardize the joy of life into jests;

Kindle the kaleidoscopic kingdom of kindness and do not keelhaul and kill the kids;

Love all is the loftiest score of life's game and do not Laden it with lamentable lids;

Make mankind out of man's kindness and do not mar it with martial madness;

Nurture natural niceties and do not nullify nice virtues or nations in nathless;

Operate with open-mindedness and do not overpower with oof and onslaughts;

Prefer and prepare for peace always and do not plunder with pernicious plots;

Quest for quietude and a life of quality and do not quell the quiet;

Reach out with reason and reverence and do not reciprocate or react in rumpus;

Safeguard soberly and sanely the society and do not sabotage social safety out of sadism;

Tolerate humanity in its totality and do not take up to terrorism;

Unite to be useful for universal understanding and do not unleash uncivilized usurpations;

Value the vision of the vitality of traditional virtues and do not vouch by virulent
Vindications;

Work with worthy wisdom and do not wreck with war mania;

Xchange x-axially and do not exterminate out of xenophobia;

Yoke yourselves with yearning and do not yap with your yeomanism;

Zoom with zest and zeal and do not zero in with zouave zanism.