My reaction to the FB post below.
Parenting involves too many things with too much of involvement. Many of which are contradictions, blatant manifestations of hypocrisy etc. Still, they all work together with too many strong ,personal , interpersonal emotions like care, concern, some amount of possessiveness, obsessive protectionism, sentimentalism, indescribable love which does not seek reciprocation, being and wanting to be physically and mentally available , wanting and willing to eagerly participate in the growth and evolution of the children etc. All of these can be realized only when one is a parent.
However, the following advice brings some
sanity to otherwise too involved parenting. " When you parent, it’s
crucial you realize you aren’t raising a ‘mini me’ but a spirit throbbing with its
own Signtaure"- Dr. Shefali Tsabary. This is nothing but what JK used to
say as 'allowing the inward flowering'.
Parenting very often does not know to
differentiate between involvement and intrusion.
All said and done life is best ensconced only
in the warmth of parental love which can be taken for granted at any
circumstance.
When people whose parents are no more alive
think of them fond memories cascade down the spine and fine feelings gush up
the spine and both together flood the heart and choke the throat. We all need
to relish with love the relationship of our parents for whatever they did or
did not or could not do and as parents let us do whatever we can to our
children with love.
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