Have your own set of resolutions to make and break.

 Have your own set of resolutions to make and break.

Attitudes are formed because of this ongoing process of evaluations.

We all constantly evaluate everything, everyone and various aspects of our environment. So, to ensure correct attitude we must analyse what are the tools with which/basis on which we evaluate?

The methods we adopt to evaluate.

And how we evaluate?

All these, in turn, will largely determine our attitude in most cases.

This will also give us an idea whether our attitude influences our behaviour or our behaviour influences our attitude.

Evaluate the purpose of life by the amount of happiness you have given to others.

Evaluate the value of life by the extent you have been useful to others.

Evaluate the meaning of life by the love you give to others.

Evaluate the destiny of life by the amount of love you get from others.

Evaluate the quality of your life by your attitudes.

Evaluate the wisdom of your life by the experience you have gained and the lessons you have learnt and the knowledge you have acquired from your experiments and actions.

Evaluate the worthiness of your life by the amount of or extent of realizations you have had.

Evaluate the totality of life not by owning anything or even trying to own life itself but by living life.

But the best way to evaluate life is to live it.

And you live based on what you have and who you are.

Even if you are schooled in irrelevant, inadequate, outdated, useless, erroneous trivia at least do not base your belief systems or thoughts on them because

Your thoughts and beliefs decide your life irrespective of whether you are prosperous, peaceful and happy or the other way.

Because they help you to make the choice. The choices you make decide who you are. What you do depends on who you are and ultimately what you do gets you whatever you have.

But unfortunately, we tend to think the process topsy-turvy.

We want to have whatever we want and think that it will make us and shape us.

Be on your own. Don’t choose for others nor let others choose for you.

So, have your own set of resolutions to make and break.