Discipline and pampering of Children
I may not agree
because
1. It is a very
populist generalization;
2. Individual
humane feelings of love and affection, at least within the family, must be
allowed to express itself without any restraint at the moment rather than
molding it to condition for a projected/presumed far off future state of life;
3. Human souls
must behave like human souls with humane qualities of concern and care
irrespective who they are and therefore cannot be reduced to churning out
socially acceptable products or as executors of contractual obligation;
4. In spite of
everything the context or situational exigencies may turn out to be otherwise.
For example the most loving child who would like to take care of the parents
genuinely may be forced to stay far away to make a living and ensure his/her
own survival. So in such cases it is not any willful negligence but an
inevitable necessity of fate;
5. Life must be
always be lived in the present and enjoyed and made enjoyable for others around
creating comforts, providing happiness and contributing to peace to the extent
one can afford;
6. Whatever
roles out ultimately must be gracefully accepted a design for a particular soul
or decide to fight out despite any circumstance good or bad.
7. The word
‘discipline’ is the most ill defined and abused term often used to label
conditions that do not disturb a
particular status quo either of religious, social, traditional or cultural
identity;
8. Anything
that curbs the freedom of expression and experiencing of life of an individual
soul cannot be a discipline- yes with a rider if it is harmful and hurting to
anyone then it has to be curtailed for reasons of social harmonious co
existence and this need not include following any particular way of dressing,
specific observance of rituals, accepting every existing mode of expected
behavior without questioning or following any prescribed forms of morality;
9. We all need
to know that morality is not something downloaded from very ancient scriptures
which were not even aware of any of the multiple complications and complexities
of modern life.
11. MORALITY
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